Sunday, August 31, 2014

july photos



Layla's typical summer outfit- a swimsuit.  She's still as much of a water baby as ever.  Except now I guess she's a water girl.  This year her swimsuits range from size 2T to 5T.  She's three.  It somehow all works out.  



McKay and Brian go to a lot of sports events together.  Dates, if you will.  It's harder for me and Elle to go to things...I think mostly because whatever I take her to do, McKay and/or Layla would enjoy it too.  When I needed to go to a wedding reception (we hardly ever go to any) I knew it would be the perfect date for my Elle.  McKay actually did really want to go.  But this was just for me and my girl.  She loved it- wanted me to take lot of pictures of the bride. 




Second trip to day camp for this cub scout!  Look at those socks!



Crazy group.




He had a blast!  I was so glad his scout leader sent these pictures to us.  I've never been to day camp before so it was fun to see what it's like.  

This makes me think of his awesome leaders.  He's been lucky enough to be with Sister Argyle as a wolf and she is so awesome.  She puts so much into teaching them and truly loves and cares about them and what they learn.  She's a good example of magnifying any calling.  She's kind of like the cub scout guru around here too- she kind of knows everything!

In August he will be with Melanie McBee who is another super organized, creative, fun leader.  I know he'll have a great time in her den also, as a bear.  Grateful for these awesome ladies and that they are helping to make my boy a better person.



Look at Ellery.  Lately she has become such a great "big cousin".  She loves the babies and toddlers and is so good with them.  Also, look how cute baby James is.



These two troublemakers at the aquarium.  They are quite terrible together.  Best friends and super annoying enemies.  It's very hot and cold, off and on with these two.  They sure are cute though.   



Water girl at her finest.










Brian, Darrell and Alex hiked Timp- mostly as training for their Alaska hike.  Darrell wanted to add some weight to his backpack and pulled that baby out at the top!  I love this picture so much because maybe he's the only person to ever carry a watermelon to the top of Timp and cut it up.  Brian said he was very popular up there.  





We had a fun visit from Buffy and her friend Jody.  Can you tell how in love Layla was with her?  I really love this friend of mine and we had so much fun while they were with us.  



We took them for a walk up to the crystal pit and who knew that Jody is a rock fanatic?!  She was SO into searching for cool rocks and crystals with my kids- Buffy and I were amazed.




Two cute buddies.



Layla's best next door neighbor buddy Nick moved to Arizona.  We miss the Kerby family a lot.  We will miss those three boys (Nick and the twins, Chase and Chandler) coming over at all hours of the day to play with Layla.  She had quite a fan club in those three.  They were fun neighbors and I'm so glad we got to know them....but I WILL NOT miss their dog Mika.  We are all very glad she moved to Arizona.  Now McKay isn't nervous to go out the front door, which is always nice.




One thing on our summer bucket list was to go to the Peppermint Place candy factory.  I gave each kid three dollars to spend and they had quite the time figuring out what to get and how much it would cost.  



McKay threw and impromptu water party.  I think at one point there were nine boys in this pool.  They splashed, jumped, played with water guns and ended the party by wrestling in the pool.  And by wrestling, I mean wrestling each other until one could throw the other one out of the pool and onto the grass.  He came inside with scratches all over his stomach from his match.  Wow.  Boys?




We spent Pioneer Day boating with the Allreds and my parents.  We actually got my parents out on the actual boat!  I had to make sure dad was dressed appropriately, as he was about to go out in jeans.  The kids loved this little pool by the marina where the natural hot spring fed into.  It was quite warm and cozy.  

We had so much fun tubing on the boat.  I went out with Brian and haven't laughed that hard in a long time.  The water was choppy and it wasn't the best day for boating, but it was still fun.



After boating, we had a quick dip in the pool, then went to Grammy's for a bbq.




Me and my sweet Elle.  




When my girls are getting along (and they usually do) they like to call each other "best sisters".  But they say it in this sing-songy voice.  I know I say this all the time but I love that they have each other.  




And lets not forget this handsome man!  He is getting so old.  I have been noticing him interacting with adults lately.  He is so polite and trying hard to pull his weight in conversation.  This makes me happy- that he has good social skills and is polite.  He's growing up every second.




Ah, the PG pool.  We have spent at least two days a week here (sometimes three) all summer.  This picture was taken on a stormy day, that cleared up, and there were about twenty people there.  It was crazy- because usually it seems like there's probably hundreds.  That's Layla int eh pink floaties, playing with some of my beehives.  

I loved that we got a pass this year.  It was so worth it.  Ellery improved in her swimming so much this summer- she is great!  She also conquered her fear of the water slide after avoiding it the first few times.  McKay mostly loved playing pass with whoever he could find to play with him.  He was always easy to spot- I'd just look for a ball going back and forth.  And Layla?  Well, she was so happy any time we were at the pool.  She loved to practice swimming with me.  We'd take off her floaties and she would swim from me to the side and back and forth, over and over.  She has no fear of the water and thinks she's a much better swimmer than she is.  We sing "dead man, dead man, come alive...." as she does a back float....and she can do a mean back float all on her own, let me tell you.  



His heaven.


Saturday, August 30, 2014

june photos


Even though we had put the girls to bed we kept hearing the occasional giggle coming from their room.  After awhile of that, it was wailing that came from their room, followed quickly by Ellery running downstairs telling us that Layla had gotten really, really hurt!  We went up there to find that Layla had been climbing on her nightstand, talking to Ellery, and had fallen and hit her chin on "something metal"- that was the report we got, anyway.  She had quite a good cut slashed on the bottom of her chin.  It was a Sunday night.  I took her to Instacare and they glued it as best they could.  She was brave and didn't cry much.  I think she kind of loved going to the doctor, where people thought she was cute, instead of being in bed at home.  The glue lasted less than 24 hours before she pulled it off.


Mack went to BYU soccer camp in June.  He loved it!  I was so glad we signed him up.  He loved playing soccer every morning for four days, but also loved being at BYU (you know, he claims to feel very comfortable in Provo) and loved being coached by BYU soccer players.  It was really fun for him.


Orem Summerfest:


While we waited for dad to park the car, McKay hopped on this crazy-spinning ride.  This was big because rides have been a hard thing for him to want to do in the past.  He was brave and tried it...and loved it.  While we were waiting for him, the girls and I asked the guy running the ride if people threw up a lot on this one.  He said yes.  




This was right up the girls alley.  The slow-motion boat ride!




The parade this year...we wore sweatshirts.  




Strawberry Days Rodeo:


Strawberries and cream at the PG rodeo!  The kids loved it...although it was a bit exhausting to keep Layla entertained (without dropping everything we brought through the bleachers) I think she even had fun.  




A highlight was when McKay joined a hundred other kids to try and grab some cash off two calves.  He didn't get any, but he had fun trying.




I bought this pool at the beginning of the summer.  It was $25.  It has been worth every penny.  All three have enjoyed it many times this summer.  



McKay doesn't really know what to do if he is not doing one of three things.  1. Playing the computer/ipad  2.  Watching t.v.  3. Playing soccer outside
That's it.  If he's not doing one of those then he's bored and following me around.  And I don't let him watch much tv and his time on electronics is limited...so this is hard for us.
Maybe I'm exaggerating a bit...but he would play soccer in the backyard with anyone, anytime.



Another frequent scene outside.  Girls in swimsuits with a few Kerby boys hanging around.



I don't know... I just like it.



McKay bored while I check out a garage sale.  My kids are so patient with me carting them around.  I love it so much though.



Brian's Birthday:


For Brian's birthday I planned a family picnic up at Silverlake.  It is one of my favorite places to go- so, so beautiful!  Many of his family were able to join us.  The kids had a ton of fun throwing rocks into the water, looking at bugs, fish and ducks, and blowing bubbles.  




Alex, Tyler and little Mack were super brave and went for a swim.  It was cold, but they assured us it was refreshing!




We had coconut cupcakes to celebrate Brian turning 33!




Cute cousins!



Some of the party.  Look at that background...





My cute little family.  I am so grateful for them.  

layla turns four

Miss Layla turned four.  This was not her year for a party, but we did make her a nice Frozen cake, which was almost as good.




We opened presents in the morning, and then everyone headed off to school and work and the day belonged to me and Layes.




We went to the children's museum at Thanksgiving Point with Jana and her kids.  They had so much fun, and I feel like we only explored a little bit of what was there.  We could have stayed much longer.  



Layla was in heaven running all around the music room, the wind tunnel, the vet's office...it was really fun.

We had a picnic lunch outside and it was pleasant for awhile, but then a family of wasps decided they wanted out lunch, so it became very unpleasant.







What can I say about my Layla?  She is such a joy to our family.  She is enthusiastic, funny, independent and she definitely knows what she wants.  She can make firm decisions in an instant and it always surprises me.  There is no wishy-washy choice with her- that is so different than me and I love that about her.

She is learning how to be a good friend (learning...still learning) and is the "best sister" of Ellery.  She likes to pick her own clothes, loves water in all capacities, and still has a weird habit of licking inedible objects (ie: rocks, the ground, dirt, the bottom of her shoes).  At her well child appointment the doctor said this is either a phase or Pica.  My guess is that it's just one of her little quirks.  


I don't know what I would do without this little girl coming into my bed nearly every morning and giving me the world's best snuggle.  It takes me right back to when she was a tiny baby and she would fit next to my body just like we were two perfectly-placed puzzle pieces.  We still fit together pretty well and I love snuggling my little girl.

She is my sunshine.

space party for a soccer fanatic



This nine year old woke up to breakfast in bed.  Can't get any easier than Toaster's Strudels.  My mom used to this on my birthday and I loved it, but we haven't done it consistently for our kids.  McKay requested breakfast in bed this year, and may have started something here.  Brian is not a fan.  Eating in bed under any circumstance makes him a little crazy.




He got right to opening his gifts.



I don't know what he liked more.  This Real jersey or the ginormous soccer goal that was set up in the backyard.  



When we ran the 5k in the spring, McKay won a free mission to the Discovery Space Center.  We kind of talked him into doing this for his party, even though he had wanted a soccer party.  He was hesitant and didn't really know what it was, but in the end he had a great time and loved it.  



It did feel a little funny to me dong a random space party for my son who doesn't have much of an interest in space...but I just went for it.




We had pizza, apples and cucumbers.






The part of the party that was held at our house was only about a half hour.  That is cake, presents, and a little bit of soccer all in a half hour.  It was quick.  I felt bad breaking up this game because they were having so much fun, but it was time to go.



Brian didn't take a picture of the group at the Space Center like I asked him to.  But he did take this one inside the ship.  I think they all loved it and were all abuzz with excitement when I picked them up after it was over.  McKay was the captain.




After all the buddies were dropped off, we went in the backyard to play soccer to end this birthday boy's special day.  






I sure love this boy.  My nine year old.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

four years ago


Today in Sunday school the lesson was on Job.  I didn't think much of it as I saw his name written on the chalkboard.  But as Brother Fassbinder dove into the lesson by asking us a time we had adversity that strengthened us in the end, it kind of hit it me all the sudden.

Four years ago I heard this same lesson.  Carly George from the Summerlake ward taught me about Job the day after I learned that I might have MS.  I sat there, somehow having made it to church after an exhausting and devastating Saturday, and it was like I was hearing Job's story for the first time.  It struck me deeply that if he could go through such horrific and terrible trials and still have faith in Heavenly Father's plan for him, then I could maybe, possibly accept His will for me during this new trial.  I could try to be a little bit like Job.


My little family four years ago

Back to today.  I didn't share how important this lesson had suddenly become to me.  I didn't raise my hand and tell of my experience four years ago and how that adversity in my life strengthened me, prepared me, taught me and helped me be who I am today.  I didn't reveal the significant parallel that this was for me.  I was too emotional about it and I didn't want to bawl in front of everyone.  But I felt so much gratitude for where I am today.  There are other trials that have come and gone since then, and I know there will be more, but I am happy to be on the other side of some.  And I know going forward that I have a loving Heavenly Father and Savior who are there for me.

I was just really humbled and grateful to be hearing another lesson on Job.  And the words that Brother Fassbinder said were just what my heart needed to hear today.  The video he showed was just what I needed to see, to remind me of where to turn in times of trial.

It's funny, I feel like sometimes in life, spiritual experiences flow really freely.  It's not hard to feel the spirit and receive personal revelation.  Then there are times when those spiritual experiences are really hard to find.  Hard to feel, I guess is more accurate.  I have been in that hard place for a couple months now.  I have wondered why I am not feeling the communication I usually feel from my Heavenly Father.  Wondering why I felt like He wasn't hearing my prayers, and especially not answering them.

Today, several times throughout church, and pretty much the whole of Sunday School, I felt those feelings again.  Today's lesson helped me remember feelings I had forgotten.  It helped me know things for today- that He is here, that He cares, that He listens.

And today I knew that my prayers were being answered.